Falling in love is something that just about everyone goes through in their lifetime, even if it's once. When you fall in love you notice that falling in love is not the hard part, but working to maintain the relationship. Every relationship metamorphoses into different stages and seasons with time, which makes it tasking to navigate your way through them. Here are 4 stages of every healthy relationship that has transited into marriage passed through!
The romance stage; when we fall in love we are so caught up with the fascination we have for each other, that we hardly see anything wrong with them, at this stage we see our partners with a screen of perfection, and them in return see us with such, but unfortunately, this stage doesn't last long, actually, the max for this kind of fiction is 2years, it's possible that such a person's personality that could never match with ourselves but we continue to fit together like two missing pieces of the puzzle. All these happens because our brain and body releases feel-good hormones, like oxytocin, etc
Stablity~check stage; this is the stage where the infatuation is blown off your eyes and you begin to realize the imperfections, at this stage the test of whether it was lust or true love sets in, this is mostly the stage where many break~ups happen, most couple now discovers how incompatible they are, this stage either builds or destroys the relationship.
Commitment Stage: after the stability check stage, couple's who get pass through, who are now fully aware of the true kind of personalities of their spouses, decide to commit themselves to each other, building themselves and continue to grow in love, in fact at this stage the outgrow the notion of wanting each other but realizing that they truly need each other.
The Bliss stage; at this stage maturity sets into the relationship, the couple now wants to show and express their love for each other to the world, marriage sets in, at this stage offense from each other can't kill the love rather both make a commitment to forgive all offenses, and move on with life. Even up until marriage both couples now fully realize that truly, love is beautiful and also beyond just feelings!
Leave us a comment below let's get to know what stage of your relationship you are at right now, or if married let's know the strategy you implemented to overcome the challenges!
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