Infidelity in marriage has proved to be one of the major causes of divorce, due to its experiential effect on the other partner, cheating in marriage comes with a lot of other consequences apart from divorce; Here are some reasons why cheating is bad;

* The emotional torture it comes with on the other partner
*  The risk of contracting diseases; there a high possibility that the person you cheat with is also sleeping with another person.
*  It brings disgrace and shame.

 Here are some valid signs that he would cheat on you:
when he has an oversized ego; when a man is so full of himself that he can't be corrected by anyone including his wife or even parents, he's always correct and never wrong, never loses an argument, has a false image of himself; this kind of man will definitely cheat on you without remorse, because he feels that as a man nothing keeps him under subjection to be faithful to you! We know that men are naturally egocentric but every man should have a limit 🚫 or something that calls him to order when goes beyond his limit.

When he is scared of commitment and sees marriage as a bondage; yes truly love can be shown to you by a man, even proved to you by him, but when a man neglects or dispises the aspect of marriage, it's a clear sign that being faithful to you is not in his agenda when a man has this idea that there are so many ladies in the world to be explored and being committed to just one is far fetched from his side, never expect faithfulness from that man. Until there are clear signs of genuine repentance from such perspective.

   when he is addicted to pornography; every scene of pornography will always motivate for action, it stimulates the brain for exploration and practice of what had been viewed, and to a man and woman in a marriage, their brain interprets such scene differently; to the woman, it gives her the notion that this is what me and my husband are gonna do while in bed, while to the man it gives him the notion that he can experience this level of ecstasy and satisfaction when explores and makes out with different ladies, not one can give him all he needs, as a woman never introduced pornography, to your relationship and marriage, because it will definitely kill it.

If he has a past track record of cheating; every man who has cheating in the past has unconsciously developed the habit and addiction of unfaithfulness, except he has genuinely repented from such, cheating impacts negatively to psychologically, especially when a marriage is built on the wrong foundation of him divorcing or leaving someone for you, chances are that he will definitely not be faithful to you.

 If he doesn't want the two of you to be seen together; he will definitely cheat on you when as couples he doesn't enjoy the fact that you guys are to be seen by the society or close friends together, chances have it that when he only visits as a couple who are engaged in only at odd hours, note that he is avoiding the record of being known to have only one lady, from some of his friends, therefore cheating on you can't be an exception 

 If he is unusually secretive; especially when it comes to personal details about his life, he avoids you from viewing his messages and chats, always answers your questions in codes, like you ask him about his current location he tells you that he is around the environment, when this happens repeatedly he is having another affair

 FINALLY, if he lacks self-control; self-control when he comes to his spendings, the way he controls his appetite, self-control towards his temper, always flaring up at every little provocation, and also his emotions when he lacks these chances are that he will lack self-control when it also comes to his sexual desires.
These are valid facts that have been proven through cases of divorce and couple brake ups, pls do check out for these signs to avoid a reoccurrence.

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