FIVE THINGS TO KNOW BEFORE SAYING "I DO" TO A LIFETIME COMMITMENT
If you're considering the lifetime commitment of marriage, or if you're engaged and have your special date set, then you will want to know these great pieces of advice that has worked overtime, like the saying that " not planning to win, is planning to fail"
If you're considering the lifetime commitment of marriage, or if you're engaged and have your special date set, then you will want to know these great pieces of advice that has worked overtime, like the saying that " not planning to win, is planning to fail"
So here are the five things every couple are to know before the final say I do
Being single; now you have no reason getting married if you haven't learned how to be single what do I mean; now most people have the idealogy that marriage brings completeness to each partner, or that you have your better half through marriage, but that isn't true because for you to get married and stay married requires each individual to first get to know/discover themselves first and then develop themselves to the point where their existence as a person is productive, and productivity will always bring about self-confidence, this is very necessary because most people always think that their partners are always there to add value to them, which has always failed. A mindset of self-identification is very necessary which will bring about value addition to the other partner.
financially stable; now before any wedding should occur a very important aspect is that of finances, most divorces cases today were due to issues of finances, no couple would love to start off a marriage on debts or poverty, so before you guys finally settle down together you have to get to each partner's source of income and plan or budget on how you will spend, and increase the flow of income, you need to decide when, how to carry out some expense, the true fact is that not being financially stable would hinder you guys from achieving a lot!
compatibility; marriage has a lot to do with whether you guys are compatible, you need to know if your belief systems tally together, your ideologies about important aspects of life, if your temperament fits, and how well he or she relates with favorite people in your life.
change is inevitable; very few people can relate to the fact that person's and their personalities will change with time, events in life tend to shape and modify people into becoming another version of their self, pregnancy for women, achievements, failure or success, disappointments, etc. are part of the occurrences that shapen people's reaction towards issues
family life; before you guys get married and start having children, there needs to be discussions and plans about how you want to construct you family, the strategy for child upbringing that will be used, the school, the environment and how many of them you guys are going to have!
Being single; now you have no reason getting married if you haven't learned how to be single what do I mean; now most people have the idealogy that marriage brings completeness to each partner, or that you have your better half through marriage, but that isn't true because for you to get married and stay married requires each individual to first get to know/discover themselves first and then develop themselves to the point where their existence as a person is productive, and productivity will always bring about self-confidence, this is very necessary because most people always think that their partners are always there to add value to them, which has always failed. A mindset of self-identification is very necessary which will bring about value addition to the other partner.
financially stable; now before any wedding should occur a very important aspect is that of finances, most divorces cases today were due to issues of finances, no couple would love to start off a marriage on debts or poverty, so before you guys finally settle down together you have to get to each partner's source of income and plan or budget on how you will spend, and increase the flow of income, you need to decide when, how to carry out some expense, the true fact is that not being financially stable would hinder you guys from achieving a lot!
compatibility; marriage has a lot to do with whether you guys are compatible, you need to know if your belief systems tally together, your ideologies about important aspects of life, if your temperament fits, and how well he or she relates with favorite people in your life.
change is inevitable; very few people can relate to the fact that person's and their personalities will change with time, events in life tend to shape and modify people into becoming another version of their self, pregnancy for women, achievements, failure or success, disappointments, etc. are part of the occurrences that shapen people's reaction towards issues
family life; before you guys get married and start having children, there needs to be discussions and plans about how you want to construct you family, the strategy for child upbringing that will be used, the school, the environment and how many of them you guys are going to have!
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