We make our choices and our choices make us.
Your life is filled with questions only you can answer. These
questions include:
• Will you be content with or conflicted about being single?
• What will you do for a career?
• What kind of influence will you have on others?
• How will you develop this influence?
• What will you do to develop healthy friendships?
• Will you take initiative or will you be a follower?
• How will you continue to grow in your personal
development?
• How will you handle your dating life?
There are no right or wrong answers to most of these
questions, so the answer is determined by a decision on your
part. And the quality of your decisions will determine the
quality of your life. This is why decision-making is such a vital skill as a single
The Benefits of Good Decisions
Numerous benefits await those who decide to be decisive. In
The 10 Best Decisions a Man Can Make, I (Bill) list a number
of these benefits:
• We have more energy for the pursuits we care about.
• Decisions make us more efficient.
• Decisions simplify our lives.
• Healthy decisions raise our confidence level.
In addition, consider a few other benefits that come to your
life when you learn to be decisive.
You will have better relationships.
Becoming a Good Decision-Maker
So how do you become a good decision-maker? First and
foremost, recognize that decision-making is a skill. It is not a
spiritual gift. It is not a unique talent given to a select few. It is
not the result of special insight or intellectual prowess. It is a
skill in the same way driving, applying makeup, using a
computer, or cooking is a skill. Since it is a skill, there are a few
guiding thoughts to keep in mind as you seek to improve your
ability to make solid choices:
1. You will be awkward at first but continue
2. You get better every time you practice
3. You will reach a breakthrough point where you begin to be decisive
4. You will get better every but never perfect
5. You will grow faster and stronger at it, anytime you teach someone else how to make decisions
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