(1) IF YOU DON'T SEE YOURSELF WITH A PERSON THERE IS NO NEED MESSING WITH THEIR EMOTIONS; actually this is common amongst men, because the tend to lust after  every beautiful lady the see on the road, where in the real sense the don't love them, properly define your love for a person before asking them out.

(2) THE WAY YOU ACT AS A SINGLE PERSON IS THE SAME YOU WILL ACT WHEN YOU GET MARRIED: every character, attitude you Develop now as a young man/lady would always follow you, as a married person, if you can't discipline yourself now, you will definitely find it hard to develop while married, when you give yourself to firlting, drinking, smoking and other immoral vices all in the name of that I will change when I get married, well the truth is that you won't.

(3) AS A YOUNG MAN/ LADY LEARN TO ACT LIKE A HUSBAND AND WIFE: 
As a young man, learn to be responsible, manage your time properly, acquire skills that would build you up to become a man of capacity, as a lady learn to become a wife and not a slay mama, know that you are going to be a wife, a homebuilder, a child trainer not a snap chatting lady, who is always trying to expose what her mama gave her.


(4) GO ON A SEXUAL SLEEP WHILE SINGLE : 
 Don't arouse emotions that would only hurt you at the end, because no successful marriage or love is built on sex.some young tell me that if they don't master sex now when will they? I tell them that you have more 30 years or more in marriage to do that because it's inbuilt.

(5) THE KEY TO FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON IS TO BE THE RIGHT PERSON:
If you knew you the way you know you would you marry you? If the answer is NO!  So why would you want someone else to do that.