Every lady has an idea of what she wants her dream man to be, but particularly for African ladies especially Nigeria it's a different ball game! A black lady is unique due to the condition she finds her self in, having to grow up and live in a developing country like 9ja, she develops and acquires ideas of the kind of man that will be fit for her life! Here are four distinct traits every Nigerian lady wants in her Mr Right; 1. He should be successful and he gat the cash; unlike other developed countries, of the world where the ladies could manage and love to start small with there man! Well not a Nigerian lady because of state of the country which she lives in, probably she comes from a poor or average family where the income flow is less than a million naira, in one quarter of the year, she would always love to have a man who could help her change that status, yes he may have a vision but at least who should be able to provide enough for her and her family! This alone is very important to a Nigerian lady! 2. IfHe can protect her from her vulnerability: Africa as a continent due to its developing status exposing its citizens to a lot of vulnerabilities like corruption and other illegal vices, so every Nigerian lady wants her boo to be her protector and deliverer from all these insecurities, she has fears of walking freely at night, fears of being abused by touts, fears of being abused by also her village people! no Nigerian lady wants that!
3. IfHe is affectionate and romantic; A Nigerian woman loves to be given affection by her man, a man that would blow away her stress of working under the hot sun with his romantic surprises! A man that will be there for her when she's down emotionally. 4. If He has influence; a Nigerian woman wants a man who has built strong influence and gained respect from people over time, a man that is seen and known to responsible, a true man of his words, a firm and solid goal-getter, an icon to be looked up to by children, and he is also well connected to important people in the society, that could help when unique issues arise. Pls do drop your comments below, thanks for reading through!
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NONSO IRULO is a social and human relations expert, a therapist and counsellor for marital life
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