Ok, I know for some people seen this title won't be feeling it but trust me they are very good explanations for the title I know that for we who are Believers like to refer to the scripture that says that he that finds a wife finds a good thing both taking the scripture into thinking that a man is meant to chase a woman we believe that men are Hunters, that woman is meant to make you jump so many hurdles just to be with her this alone is not healthy!


Now note that there is a difference between showing interest and chasing something, CHASING; signifies that something is running from you and you are still going after it!  So here are three solid reasons why a man shouldn't chase a woman!

1. There's a thin between desire and desperation; when you are chasing something you end up being desperate a lot of times, and this can be unhealthy.
With the woman who is happy with the man chasing her, that's something different, but for a woman who is not its not a good look on him, he gets to lose his respect and dignity with the woman! And for some of you guys who have seen some instances where the man chases for years and finally gets the woman, Am sorry to say this but in a lot of situations, it wasn't as if the woman loved him, because he showed a lot of interest, but it was because she never had a better option anymore, it is probably that she said to herself that she is getting older, or she is worn down by his advances!


2. How you start is how you will end up; when you start chasing and eventually succeed, you are gonna stay in a relationship where you will always have to be the one to make the efforts to see that it works out! Every true love has to do with two mutual efforts, it's a synergy and not an energy! But in this case she gets to be the one to sit back while you alone take actions and make the effort! 

And if a woman makes you chase her it's majorly due to two critical reasons: 
. she is not that interested in you, but she admires your qualities, but she is obviously looking for a better option
. she might have been through some emotional torture before and she hasn't healed, obviously, when you eventually get this kind of lady, any mistake of yours will make her get back to initial pains.

3.  It's an Unnecessary distraction; chasing a woman has a lot of unhealthiness attached to it because it makes you lose focus on your life, forgetting that it is also special, you forget about important things in your life, this is not the plan that God had for us in mind when creating marriage, because the ultimate goal on earth is to fulfill purpose and not having tunnel visions! 

Hope this was helpful! Do drop your comments below Thanks for reading through!