"People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges"
Joseph F Newton
If you meet me today you'll probably notice that I'm someone that defines a lot of interest in people and I also get a lot of people around me but behind at my Closet is a boy that is shy and doesn't speak a lot, this is what I have learned to adapt and reshape my life to become.
IS THE WORLD TAILORED FOR EXTROVERTS?
YES! It is because people only get to know you if, you express your virtues and values.
My mum once said; be nice and polite people will notice you! That's not true at all, because for you to achieve anything in school, your place, or within a group of people you need to know how to communicate effectively or know how to represent your virtue and what you stand for.
Here are established facts that would help you develop your social status;
1. Start from where you are; in as much as you want to gain a nice and outstanding social representation you don't have to take steps that are beyond your reach, start from where you are getting to actually acknowledge the persons around you, get to know and relate well with them.
2. Learn to chat with strangers; improving your social status needs you to be "a get to know kind of person" in that little get together party try discussing with strangers and new set of people you might have heard of from someone and don't be pushy, just flow with the fun.
3. Don't be intimidated by those who speak too much: really don't stick to the impression that people who talk much are the ones that have a lot of points to make in a discussion, actually, you do have as much as they also have, learn to give out your own point of view, and not keeping your opinion back to yourself, learn to voice out, continuous keeping back of your views about issues would reduce your confidence, making you more of an introvert!
4. Master to act like how "Likeable people do" ;
These are the following traits that distinguish people and make them to be loved by many; people naturally flow from where they don't love to be to where they love to!
6. Find a hobby that's social: a major booster or contributor to your social status is what you do often or always get yourself involved with, every hobby has a way of influencing and molding our social lifestyle, so get one that would improve you socially.
2. Learn to chat with strangers; improving your social status needs you to be "a get to know kind of person" in that little get together party try discussing with strangers and new set of people you might have heard of from someone and don't be pushy, just flow with the fun.
3. Don't be intimidated by those who speak too much: really don't stick to the impression that people who talk much are the ones that have a lot of points to make in a discussion, actually, you do have as much as they also have, learn to give out your own point of view, and not keeping your opinion back to yourself, learn to voice out, continuous keeping back of your views about issues would reduce your confidence, making you more of an introvert!
4. Master to act like how "Likeable people do" ;
These are the following traits that distinguish people and make them to be loved by many; people naturally flow from where they don't love to be to where they love to!
5. Don't control yourself all the time; the very reason why people take drugs before some stage performances is because they don't want those blocks in their head telling them what to do and what not to do, when interacting with people learn to be natural, sometimes it's good to flow with your emotions, a little drama to spice up the fun!
- Learn to smile more often, be more friendly
- Speak loud and clear when conversing to make your points
- When people speak to you give them your attention and ask follow up questions.
6. Find a hobby that's social: a major booster or contributor to your social status is what you do often or always get yourself involved with, every hobby has a way of influencing and molding our social lifestyle, so get one that would improve you socially.
Thanks for reading through, Hope this was helpful, do drop a comment! Thanks
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Nice one
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