The topic of today is a very important one! You want to know how important your friendship circle looks like, why not read meaning into the saying that says "stay around five fools for five years during the sixth year you become the sixth fool" but today we won't be discussing about foolish friends but we are discussing about toxic friends, the fact about this is that you can't and will never grow or achieve beyond what influences you, your friends can be your greatest motivations as well as be the reason for your downfall. So it's very necessary to discover toxic friends and discharge them out of your life, the bitter truth about how necessary this is! Is that no prominent successful person today, has bad energies coming from somewhere that is close to him, everyone supports him, success is like a ladder and toxic friends are like heavyweights and there is no way you can make it up there without discharging or eliminating such weight! Here are some striking traits of toxic friends, when trying to discover them; 1. A toxic friend rarely improves your self-confidence; someone may ask WHY IS SELF CONFIDENCE IMPORTANT? well, sweetheart self-confidence evolves around everything about you, the way people see you and analyze your actions centers on your self-confidence, the way you tackle and handle challenges in life is based on your self-confidence,so the common trait of toxic friends is that they kill your confidence at actualizing any of your goals, the capitalize more on your insecurities, weaknesses and vulnerability, you hardly get a 'PUSH AHEAD' from them at anything you venture into, rather the destroy your passion and create in you this attitude of you running back to them to seek their approval for a sense of security, in achieving any new goal. 2. A toxic friend hardly celebrates you; instead of giving you a thumbs up for a job well done, they are the first to throw a cold blanket at you, because at heart the see you as competition rather than a motivation, they are usually the first critic you get on your work! 3. They usually present a negative impression about you to other people; rather than speaking well of you to others when asked, the immediately reveal your capabilities, and make a caricature of you in public. 4. They always bring your past mistakes; this one is a total killer of any future achievements you might get, every toxic friend uses any slight opportunity to dig up your past mistakes, or immature acts you might have displayed in the past, being fully aware of how you've tried to gain better grounds after such incidents, they will bring it up at your, discussion with them, or time out with them. I personally believe that the faster you tactically get reed of a toxic friend in your life, they better airof goodness and greater accomplishment that your life would breathe. Pls do drop your comments below and share your reactions with us thanks!
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