It's commonly said that to every action or decisions there is a reason standing behind, today we would deliberate on a very important subject matter " WAITING FOR THE RIGHT TIME TO HAVE SEX IN A RELATIONSHIP" this is mostly the question in the mind of mosts youths especially in a relationship, it's very important because it tends to create and form a major part of their lifestyle, especially here in Africa were having sex before marriage is seen as a taboo and also seen as living waywardly, so youths who make decisions to engage and continue to do so, do not care again what the society sees them as rather the openly portray the lifestyle of the so-called "waywardness". So what exactly could be the heavy or concrete reason why I need to pass through all the sexual urges and desires to get sexually intimate until I get married, many see these as a foolish decision, why some others see it as one of the best decisions! 

 Well, as a matter of fact, this deliberations in the hearts of many needs to be settled that's why I came up with four smart facts why we should obviously wait until marriage because as a matter of fact sex can make or ruin a man or a woman in a relationship!

Here they are;

  • Abstinence provides every relationship with a firm foundation:  sex can never be a definition of true love, because true love is not a feeling, and every responsible relationship heading towards marriage is built on true love, so many married couples will tell you that there are times when true friendship was the core virtue igniting and pushing the relationship forward, some will also tell that they value friendship more than anything else, not even sex can replace it, so build your relationship rightly.
  • Trust will be established; when the motive behind starting a relationship  wasn't to take of advantage the other partner, trust can easily be found, trust that what you and your partner want from each other is nothing but to make and grow a good life for you two, trust is built firmly
  • You get to know if you are truly compatible; sex can be a heavy distraction towards knowing you guys are made for each other as they say, every act of sex with your partner according to research bonds and create false feelings that clouds your judgment, hindering from seeing clear facts why you shouldn't go ahead in marrying someone you aren't compatible with. It gives you the illusion that anything the person does is right.
  • It's really worth waiting for;  can you ask yourself just one question if I get married tomorrow and leave with my partner,  let's say you guys leave up to 50 years of togetherness what are you going to be doing? So what's the rush in having sex frequently, as a matter of fact, get 100 married eople into a room who had premarital sex before getting married and ask them if they wish they had waited you be shocked to get 90% yes, this is because many of them are even getting exhausted from the so-called sex. 
Pls do well to comment on these facts, thanks for reading through!